Faithfulness over Perfection: The Transformative Power of Faith

August 11, 2024

The God we worship values our faithfulness more than our perfection.

We often expect (whether we admit it or not) our faith journey and relationship with God to be a straight upward climb—a stable path going on the up and up. Yet, in reality, it’s anything but easy and straightforward. It’s more similar to a complex path with lots of ups, downs, and many (many many many) detours along the way. Just as Paul reminds us in the second book of Corinthians, we are constantly being transformed into His image with ever-increasing glory.

This transformation, however, needs immense faith—a faith that keeps you at peace even during the rockiest of waters. Like the story of Rodel and Carmen Zafra, the current leaders of ICOC Rizal, embodies God’s powerful transformative work through faith.

With more than two decades into their spiritual journey, Rodel was reached out in his campus days and Carmen in the singles ministry. Rodel, who was also a working student with a strict, hectic schedule at the time, still made Jesus His Lord and Savior after studying the Bible for only five days. While Carmen became a disciple after a few short weeks of studying His Word. In July 1998, Rodel and Carmen began dating in the Kingdom when Carmen was just nine months old as a disciple.


Rodel and Carmen were living the ideal Christian life — glorifying God through dating and leading the campus ministry together.

They were serving God wholeheartedly by leading so many people toward His love. Unfortunately, like many others, their journey of faith took a detour. After almost two years of dating and serving, living out their convictions became a challenge and in the end they had to take a break from both leading and from each other.



They had to resume their walk with God separately. Rodel moved to Manila and went through restoration for a few months. Through the strengthening of God’s Spirit, after some time, the leaders at the time asked Rodel to lead the Singles Ministry in Manila.

After a year of working on their personal relationships with God, Rodel, and Carmen went on an encouragement date. When asked if he still wanted to pursue Carmen, Rodel had to say no, for he no longer simply desired Carmen to be his girlfriend but his fiance. Thus, Rodel proposed to Carmen, and they tied the knot after a few months of being engaged. Not what you’d expect after a huge detour, huh?

Throughout their marriage, Rodel and Carmen were able to experience the unfathomable depth of God’s love and faithfulness, especially with the birth of their eldest, Yahzee, just after a year of marriage. Despite these blessings, however, Rodel became focused on his career, so much so that he again felt weak in the faith. His struggles were only amplified by other conflicts and issues within the spiritual family.


Despite Rodel's faith challenges, the people around him, particularly his family, remained steadfast and faithful. Carmen relentlessly prayed for Rodel every 4 AM, laying her hand on his head while he slept.


Rodel’s father invited him to join ICOC Rizal’s sending-off service. Even though struggling, Rodel obliged and attended the Inauguration Service of ICOC Rizal. While to many this seems like a turning point for Rodel’s faith, the passing of his father immediately a day after ICOC Rizal’s Inauguration Service tested his faith even more.

The challenges Rodel faced in his relationship with God continued while he tried to venture into various businesses. They even went as far as planning to migrate to another country. Yet, God’s call to Rodel was too loud to ignore. After witnessing a division within the leadership of ICOC Rizal in 2008, Rodel had an epiphany in his spiritual walk. His current lifestyle of seeking the world’s standard of stability and wealth only brought him struggle after struggle—he knew that he had to go back and rekindle the fire of his faith. This compelled him to finally serve in leadership for God’s kingdom once again.

Much like Rodel and Carmen’s story, ICOC Rizal’s journey as a spiritual family was not smooth sailing. Many disciples experienced hurt from the previous leaderships, and the conflicts within the church further escalated—to the point that the leaders of ICOC Philippines had a meeting and almost opted to dissolve the Church. Rodel, however, willingly volunteered to be the point person for those that chose to stay in ICOC Rizal.


Surprisingly, during their first Sunday Service after the meeting, many disciples decided to stay at ICOC Rizal. This motivated Rodel and Carmen, who then became official leaders of the ICOC Rizal. Nonetheless, as much of a big encouragement for them, this posed additional challenges, particularly regarding finances. Their initial budget was barely enough to cover the facility's rent and other expenses necessary to sustain the church. Even though the challenges were great, their faith in God remained greater. Rodel and Carmen gathered the newly established Bible Talk leaders and enlisted their help.

They prayed fervently for the church, and everyone decided to give more out of their own pockets. Amazingly, God blessed their prayers, and they were able to grow their initial budget by twenty times more in just a year.

Although, just as things were looking up for ICOC Rizal, Rodel and Carmen encountered another personal struggle, this time with their own personal finances. They barely had enough money to pay their son’s tuition fees, much less a monthly living budget. Still, Rodel and Carmen treated this moment as another way to deepen their faith–and so they trusted God. Within six months, not only did they become financially stable, but the strength of their relationship with God flourished as well.


With the problems of church finances made more manageable, Rodel and Carmen were able to focus on the bigger and deeper problem of ICOC Rizal—relationships in the church. With the previous hurts and relational challenges, the Zafras knew that it was important to bring it all back to the center, to God. In every meeting of the body, Rodel made it a point to emphasize the love of Jesus in the lives of every disciple.

He had hoped that this would spur and nudge each disciple towards unity through the undeserving love of Jesus—-and God did not disappoint. Through this, God inspired a heart to serve a lot of the members of ICOC Rizal (whether it was in worship, ushering, or what have you!). This allowed each one to bond and grow closer, deepening their relationships with one another. Truly an answered prayer for both Rodel and Carmen!


From there, ICOC Rizal grew from a family of sixty to more than a hundred forty disciples in just a few years. This growth has inspired Rodel and Carmen to dream bigger in faith; they aim to establish three mission ministries in the neighboring cities in the next three years and bring ICOC Rizal to a whopping 500 members in five years!


The Zafras’ spiritual journey, much like ICOC Rizal’s, has been filled with one twist and turn after another, detours upon detours, and plot twist after plot twist—but it was through these circumstances that their faith grew stronger and deeper. It was through that faith that God shaped ICOC Rizal into what it is today, a testament of God’s power turning weaknesses into victories!

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